Ego of a Man

There are quite a few men out there that think life revolves around them. They’re either trying to discover who they are, what life is about, or where they’re going to find a new woman. We may not be able to read the mind of a man, but we can defiantly tell if they have an ego that draws us in or pushes us away. It’s no secret that everyone has an ego, but when it comes to men there are several ways to both boost and damage their ego.
Men  typically have higher egos and generally use that to their advantage.
For Example: The other night my sister and I were out to dinner. Of course we had to sit at the bars to indulge in a few stress relieving drinks. It was really what was behind the bar that was so amusing– a toned man in his early thirties bartending with blondish hair, and beautiful blue eyes. Now you know, he has to know he looks good, and is possibly using his looks to his advantage and that confidence is something to be admired.
How he handles these woman at the bar gawking at him all night is beyond me. Sure, he needs to make tips and I suppose he is used to it–smiling, talking, and eye contact are great ways to boost his ego (as if he really needed a boost). Though this man may have been a more gentle soul and he was hard at work, there are plenty of men with ego’s that are so high that they think it’s all about them, and no matter how good looking they are, this fact makes it nearly impossible to want to look at them.
Then you have the men that go to the gym 24/7 and work out consistently. A work out does a body good, it boosts your metabolism, helps you lose weight, and gets you fit but given the option of dating someone so body obsessed, I would much rather be single.
Hurting a man emotionally and hurting his ego are pretty much two of the same, being negative towards a man’s feelings, and lack of giving him attention can hurt his ego, so saying nothing is sometimes better then truly voicing your opinions, I prefer communication and positive reinforcement (where ever it may lead).
Is a man’s ego his personality?
Does having an big ego make a man more self-confident?
I believe a man’s ego can become his personality, it could possibly be a man trying to grow, learn and be more self-confident about himself , we are all human.  Men feel they need to please their woman, work hard at their career, and live up to the standards of sex appeal, if you’re not on board with them forget it, time to jump over board and find the man of your dreams.
We all live in a society where  looks are everything, how you feel about yourself, and how you present yourself is very important. Either way your ego will shine through if you have one and your voice will be heard. We all have one regardless of what we think.